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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
- Comedienne Oh Na Mi! - Oh Na Mi!
Hello, everyone. Hello.
Weirdly, he looks a bit like Na Mi.
Actor Baek Bong Gi!
Hello. It's nice to meet you all.
Bona and Luda of WJSN!
- Hello. - Hello.
- And Cheon Yi Seul! - Welcome.
(Welcome.)
I'm sure everyone must be thinking the same thing.
Just as there's a pretty girl next to another pretty girl,
there's someone who looks like Na Mi next to Na Mi.
(They look alike despite their gender.)
- They look so much alike. - Na Mi, you get this a lot, right?
- When he was in "Pasta", - Right.
many people told me...
that someone who looks like me was playing in that drama.
So I thought it was a woman, but it was him.
(She never thought it'd be a man.)
I'm sorry, but could you please show us the signature end pose...
at Andre Kim's fashion show?
Oh, that pose?
Turning heads around?
Like this.
(The signature ending pose of his fashion shows)
(This pose was done by many top stars.)
(How will Na Mi and Bong Gi strike this pose?)
(Smiling brightly)
(They look like the same person.)
- They have similar features. - They really look alike.
They look so much alike when they smile.
I heard that many of his relatives...
on Bong Gi's mother's side of the family look similar to Na Mi.
My goodness.
Bong Gi.
(The power of genetics in Bong Gi's family)
(Bong Gi's mother and aunts)
If Na Mi was standing with them, she'd look like their family.
- They look like Na Mi. - That's unbelievable.
(Everyone looks like Na Mi.)
- I heard Bong Gi has a daughter. - That's right.
- She's cute. - She's beautiful.
His wife is so pretty.
- Is she your wife? - She's really pretty.
- She's pretty. - How old is she?
- She's 10 years younger than me. - They have a 10-year age gap.
My goodness.
- I'm surprised. - She looks so charming.
Since his wife is pretty, everyone whispered,
"How rich is Bong Gi?"
It's not like that. They love each other.
- They truly love each other. - Of course.
Na Mi, when you see photos of a happy family like this,
don't you feel jealous?
I feel so jealous.
I haven't dated anyone in 11 years.
- Oh, gosh. - So...
You must've forgotten...
- I don't even know how it works. - how it feels.
In many cases,
I thought someone had a crush on me, but he just had good manners.
- He was simply being kind to you. - Yes.
Still, Na Mi has a pretty face,
and that's why men are nice to her at least.
Don't flatter me.
- She's acting cute. - Gosh. Seriously.
Yi Seul, do you have any worries?
- Tell us since you're on Hello. - Okay.
Actually, I'm very clumsy.
When I went from Seoul to Busan,
I left my wallet at Seoul Station.
I received it at Busan Station,
but I left it at Busan Station a few days later when I came back.
Sometimes, I even forget my door lock passcode.
- Your house in Seoul? - Yes.
- I'm worried about my clumsiness. - That's why women these days...
- must strengthen their bodies. - Right.
You should be able to tear the door off when you forget the passcode.
(Eureka!)
- That's a good idea. - Of course.
(Yeong Ja came up with a brilliant idea.)
I changed my door eight times.
(She's hilarious.)
I think everyone has different worries.
Bona and Luda are worried about something ridiculous,
which made Yeong Ja a little upset.
I heard they don't gain weight no matter how much they eat.
I was so surprised.
Also, is it true that your waist is only 20 inches?
- 20 inches? - 20 inches?
- Yes. - My thigh should be 20 inches.
- Is it true? - It's about 21 inches.
I eat 2 portions for 1 meal.
- All at once? - Yes.
I didn't have much appetite yesterday,
so I ate two portions of gopchang, but I couldn't eat stir-fried rice.
- And you didn't have much appetite? - That's right.
Could you have thin arms and legs, but a big belly just like ET?
That's possible. Yes.
You've released a new song, right? Could you show us a little?
(Please show us.)
("Save Me, Save You" by WJSN)
(Don't try to hide it)
(I'll be on your side)
(Their performance is mesmerizing and heartwarming as always.)
(Her mic fell off.)
(I'll take care of your mic.)
(Embarrassed)
(My goodness)
Thank you.
Your kindness can cause others trouble.
We might not have noticed it if she hadn't done it.
(She let everyone know what happened.)
- I'm sorry. - That's a great comment.
- "Your kindness can..." - It can cause others trouble.
"cause others trouble."
- That's right. - Just like what Oh Ji Ho did.
(It's a Pandora's Box that opens up whenever it's forgotten.)
That's why she reacted sensitively.
We have three stories as always.
Show us the keywords please.
"Single Husband".
- "Son, Stop Watching It!" - Oh, dear.
"The Handsome Man's Life".
I think "Son, Stop Watching It!" is for Dong Yeob.
You're right.
The title...
Why would you make titles of the stories for him like this?
- They always mislead us. - Exactly.
- I know. - Then make us imagine some things.
"Son, Stop Watching It!"
Hello. I'm a housewife who has 1 daughter and 1 son.
I heard that Pororo and Baby Shark are the most popular...
among children these days.
However, my son's favorite cartoon is something else.
- "Cartoon"? - His favorite cartoon is...
"I'm shaking my hips. Here I go. Let's go."
- "Action Mask, our hero!" - Doesn't he do this dance?
My son...
likes "Crayon Shin-chan" the most.
- He must be a little boy. - Right.
Whenever I see my son, I feel heavy-hearted...
because my son is 20 years old.
- What? - Oh, my gosh.
- He's a grown man. - He must be a big fan.
"Son, stop watching the cartoon and eat."
"No, I can't. This is a moment of crisis."
"Shin-chan just said he won't play with his little sister."
Oh, no.
My 20-year-old son's day starts and ends with "Crayon Shin-chan".
Does this make any sense?
That's not all. He always watches "Crayon Shin-chan"...
- very loudly, like in a theater. - To watch "Crayon Shin-chan"?
"Son, it's 1am. Please turn it off,"
"so I can sleep."
"No."
"Or at least turn down the volume."
"I said no."
"Watching this cartoon is the only joy in my life."
"I really hate you, Mom. You're so annoying."
I don't know why he's so obsessed and sensitive about it.
I feel furious when I just hear "Chan" of "Shin-chan".
Don't you think he's addicted?
Please help me solve this problem.
(Please help my son overcome his addiction.)
There's a star we all know who likes "Doraemon".
He's Shim Hyoung Tak.
Hyoung Tak became more famous...
because of his affection for the cartoon character.
However, his mother was worried about him.
Since he only likes Doraemon...
without getting married when he's a grown man,
her mother was worried that something was wrong with him.
Right. However, he has a successful career.
He works hard and spends his free time on his hobby.
As he's a single man,
it's okay for him to enjoy his hobby.
Not long ago, a father, who was addicted to "Taejo Wang Geon",
appeared on Hello.
He watches "Taejo Wang Geon" all the time.
He watches the whole series repeatedly.
He memorized all the lines in the drama.
(He reenacts a scene from "Taejo Wang Geon".)
This letter was sent from a mother whose son...
is addicted to "Crayon Shin-chan".
Please come out.
(Who is worried about her son's addiction for "Crayon Shin-chan"?)
(Choi Hye Young)
Goodness.
(It's good to see you!)
- Please put your shoes over there. - Okay.
She's cool.
(She's charismatic.)
Ma'am, you have a 20-year-old son,
- Hello. - but you look so young.
- It's as if you rode a motorcycle. - Exactly.
- Do you ride a motorcycle? - No.
- I used to. - I see.
- How big was your engine? - It was small.
I see.
How often does your son watch "Crayon Shin-chan"...
to make you write a letter to us?
I think he watches it 2 or 3 hours a day.
Don't get me started.
He became addicted to it 2 or 3 years ago.
He watches the cartoon 24 hours a day.
(He watches the cartoon 24 hours a day.)
- 24 hours a day? Without sleeping? - 24 hours?
He starts his morning by watching the cartoon.
- When it's time to eat, - He eats.
he watches it on his phone while eating.
- But even while he's eating, - He's distracted.
he stops moving like this.
- While he's watching the cartoon? - Yes. "Crayon Shin-chan".
He even falls asleep while watching it.
- If I turn it off quietly, - Yes?
he wakes up and turn it on again.
He's just like the man who liked "Taejo Wang Geon".
He acted just the same.
- Right. - I don't understand him.
Could he have watched the episode?
- Other boys play video games... - That's right.
and other things to spend free time.
But my son does nothing else but watching "Crayon Shin-chan".
- "Crayon Shin-chan"... - However, what's funny is...
he watches Hello. This is the only other show he watches.
- I'm so grateful. - Hang on a second.
We should be grateful as he watches our show and no other TV shows.
Could any one of us be like the character of "Crayon Shin-chan"?
Since "Crayon Shin-chan" is a very popular cartoon,
- adults watch it as well. - That's right.
I don't think it's a big problem.
But the whole house...
is filled with the sound from the cartoon.
- Why? - When my son watches the cartoon,
- he uses a Bluetooth speaker... - He uses a Bluetooth speaker?
- That's not necessary. - He listens through a speaker.
- He connects his phone to it? - Yes.
If the maximum volume of the speaker...
is 10, he sets the volume at 8 or 9.
- He really likes the cartoon. - That's right.
So people can hear it from outside of our house.
Your neighbors must think Shin-chan lives in your house.
There's a song that's played in the beginning.
(Singing)
Whenever I hear this melody,
- I see. - I think to myself,
"That brat is watching the cartoon again."
(That brat is watching the cartoon again.)
- Well, he's her son. - It's understandable.
- Right. - He's her son.
(Scared)
Since he watches "Crayon Shin-chan" too loudly,
I wake up every 30 minutes at night.
And now, I have insomnia.
- Does he use a speaker at night? - Yes.
Does he not put on earphones at night?
No, he doesn't.
"Put on earphones or turn the volume down!"
"I keep waking up because of you!" You can scold him like this.
I can't do that...
because he reacts so sensitively whenever I talk about the cartoon.
He throws a tantrum and yells at me.
- Really? - But he's 20.
Yes.
"Mom, can't I watch my favorite cartoon?"
"You're so annoying!"
(How could he say such a thing to his mother?)
He yells at me like this.
That's how the character of "Crayon Shin-chan" acts.
- Really? Does he yell at his mom? - Yes. He always...
talk back to his mom. He says, "You're annoying."
- But he talks cute, right? - That's true.
- He's a little child. - Did he nag you to buy him a toy?
- No. He didn't do that. - I see.
There's no reason for him to get annoyed because you asked him...
- to put on earphones. - But...
I can't ask him to do that because in June,
he lost hearing in one ear due to sudden deafness.
(He lost hearing in one ear.)
Sudden deafness?
The doctor said there could be a lot of different causes.
But I think it's mostly because he watches the cartoon...
- too loudly when he watches it. - That can damage his ears.
- He might go complete deaf. - Exactly.
That's what I'm worried about.
(Could he know why his mother...)
(lets him watches it through a speaker?)
We asked her to film her son...
watching "Crayon Shin-chan" without letting him know.
He's watching it in the dark at night.
(He watches the cartoon alone in his room in the dark.)
(He wakes up in the same position.)
(This is his Bluetooth speaker.)
My goodness.
(He puts on earphones only when he can't hear it clearly.)
He's wearing earphones.
- He's eating. - It's so noisy.
- So what? - Gosh.
- I said it's noisy. - Shut your mouth.
(Shocked)
(It's beyond our imagination.)
It's surprising that he watches the cartoon 24 hours a day,
but he said "Shut your mouth". He said this to his mother, right?
- No. To his elder sister. - Oh, to his elder sister?
I was so surprised.
Let's meet her son who talks about "Crayon Shin-chan" all day long.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is her son who talks about a cartoon all the time?)
He looks cheery.
- Can you see his socks? - His socks...
- The character is printed on them. - Right.
(Cute)
- My goodness. - It's the character of the cartoon.
(Does he wear them daily?)
Do you always wear those socks?
Yes. Since I like this character,
I wear socks with the character on them and use a phone case too.
(He also uses a phone case with the character on it.)
(Why would he brag about such a thing?)
Your mother is worried because you like the cartoon too much.
The cartoon never caused me harm.
I just enjoy watching it because it's funny.
She has trouble staying asleep and suffer from insomnia.
Why do you watch it so loudly using a speaker?
It's not as fun when I watch it using earphones.
It's more fun when I watch it using a speaker.
Do you not care if your mom can't sleep?
Since I watch what I want to watch,
I don't care about it so much.
Your mom has insomnia.
(Even though your mom has insomnia?)
You're her son.
I don't care so much.
What about yourself?
You lost hearing because you listened to music too loudly.
Don't you think you should turn the volume down for yourself?
I don't care about it. I just let things flow.
When it gets worse, I can wear a hearing aid.
(I can wear a hearing aid.)
(He's so immature just like Shin-chan.)
- You can't turn it up or down? - No.
Then you can't enjoy it?
That's right. I can't enjoy it when the volume is lower than that.
When did you start watching this cartoon?
I was 6 or 7 when I started watching it.
(He's been watching it since he was six.)
What do you like so much about the character?
Well... He's cute, lovely, and funny.
Watching "Crayon Shin-chan" helps me feel at ease and comforts me.
There are many good cartoons other than "Crayon Shin-chan".
Young people at your age enjoy playing video games.
I like hanging with my friends or playing a video game too.
But I prefer watching "Crayon Shin-chan".
I guess you spend most time alone.
Yes. I spend most time alone.
Do you not watch any dramas or movies?
You heard before...
that he doesn't watch anything but Hello.
I'm grateful for that, but I don't understand...
why he watches this show.
Every story on this show is very funny, so I watch it every week.
Not every story was funny.
There were so many heart-wrenching stories...
about the pain in people's lives. Do you think they were funny?
Well, yes.
I think there's a similarity...
between "Crayon Shin-chan" and Hello.
You can see troublemakers on both shows.
You can see many people who are out of control.
There have been many people like Shin-chan on this show.
That's right.
Boys at his age want to date girls the most.
They're so interested in girls.
- Even Shin-chan likes girls too. - That's right.
- Do you have a girlfriend? - No. I don't have a girlfriend now.
My ideal type is a character in "Crayon Shin-chan".
- She's Nanako's sister, Shinobu. - Nanako's sister?
(No way.)
That's her.
(Hello. I'm Shinobu.)
(She has everything he wants.)
(Laughing)
That's her. That's Shinobu.
(He's unbelievable.)
Why do you like Shinobu?
She looks masculine, but at the same time, she's very sensitive.
She's strong and masculine, but also sensitive?
- I see. - I have a question.
Which one of these ladies is your ideal type?
It's Yeong Ja.
(Picking her nose)
(Applauding)
Well...
I'm not happy to hear that.
He spent half of his life watching "Crayon Shin-chan".
So it's either Shinobu or me.
I'm better than Shinobu even from my perspective.
Yeong Ja is better than Shinobu.
I mean, am I uglier than Shinobu?
I'm not so happy to hear that.
Do you know when "Crayon Shin-chan" was first aired?
In 1992.
- In 1992? - Yes.
The 18th season of the series is being aired now.
It's aired on a cartoon channel around 7pm every Thursday.
When the "Taejo Wang Geon" fan was here,
- we gave him quizzes about it. - That's right.
- He got all of them right. - Yes, he did.
- He knew everything correctly. - Yes.
- You must've watched every season. - Yes.
Do you remember each and every season?
The first season is "Action Mask vs Leotard Devil".
(Correct)
The second is "The Secret Treasure of Buri Buri Kingdom".
- That's correct. - My gosh.
The third season is "Black Beak King's Ambition".
What?
(The third movie, "Unkokusai's Ambition")
- "Unkokusai's Ambition". - That's a Japanese name.
- It was called that in Korean. - "Unkokusai's Ambition".
Was the title "Beak King's Ambition"?
- "Black Beak King's Ambition". - I see.
I thought of the Korean folk tale.
We're too old now.
- The fourth one? - "Great Adventure in Henderland".
(The fourth movie, "Great Adventure in Henderland")
That's correct.
The fifth one is "Pursuit of the Balls of Darkness".
- He really knows everything. - I'm surprised.
- The sixth one is "Blitzkrieg!" - That one is fun.
"Pig's Hoof's Secret Mission".
- That's correct. - He got it right.
The seventh is "Explosion! The Hot Spring's Feel Good Final Battle".
(He's unbelievable.)
And the eighth one...
"Jungle That Invites Storm".
(The eighth movie, "Jungle That Invites Storm")
He knows all the titles correctly.
- That's amazing. - The more we talk about it,
the more depressed his mom looks.
His son is 20 years old,
but all he talks about is the cartoon series.
That's...
"Unkokusai's Ambition".
You said watching "Crayon Shin-chan" heals you.
In what ways does it heal you?
In the theatrical version,
there was a scene were the robot dad was dying.
Shin Chan said he likes his dad...
whether he's a robot or a human.
That scene really touched me.
Let's watch it together.
(It's Shin Chan.)
(22nd film "Intense Battle! Robo Dad Strikes Back")
Hey.
Dad.
I am not your dad.
Whether you are a robot or a human,
you are my dad. I like you the most in this whole world.
(His eyes get teary.)
You are such a good boy.
(She's sick of it.)
Be a big man.
I will be a big man.
(It conveys the message of family love.)
I will be a big man.
(It touches him all over again.)
- When you watch it... - Isn't it because of the music?
- It's the music. - It's the music.
It's too sad.
You felt the family love.
What's up with this cartoon?
Isn't it supposed to be funny?
I think it's going to be fun.
Why is it so sad? But your mom is...
sick and tired of it. She didn't watch the video.
She kept staring at the floor.
Do you know that scene?
No. I don't watch it.
I hate it.
Was there a reason why you got into that?
Yes. When I was little,
my parents got divorced.
When they got divorced, my mom had to work.
So my grandparents raised me. Until I was in second grade.
"Crayon Shin-chan" filled my mom and dad's absence.
("Crayon Shin-chan" made him feel complete.)
If they didn't get divorced...
It made you feel your father's presence.
(Why can't we live like that?)
(He watched it to ease the longing and sadness.)
- My goodness. - It made his mom really sad.
I know.
(I didn't know my son was in such a pain.)
(Don't cry.)
Yes.
- Right now, she... - She...
Her daughter is telling her to stop crying.
- She must feel sorry. - How sorry must she been?
She must have mixed emotions.
I got married early,
and I had my children early.
Then I got divorced.
So I had to leave them with my parents...
and work to earn rent money.
When I saved up enough, I took them back.
(She did it for the family, but it hurt her children.)
I felt sad.
I told my grandparents that I missed my mom.
But they told me she went to make money and that I should endure it.
At the time, I couldn't stop thinking about...
why she didn't take us with her,
and it made me really sad.
(He just felt bad.)
That's understandable.
Can't you understand...
his love for Shin Chan?
I would understand it...
if he's a child.
He's an adult now.
Because he watches it so much,
he copies Shin Chan's behaviors.
He looks down on me a lot too.
- Does he hate you? - Is that in the cartoon too?
When I ask him, "Is my hair pretty, my son?"
He says, "What's the point of having pretty hair when your face is ugly?"
That's what he says.
Then he would go to his sister and say things like,
"Do you call those breasts? I guess they are still better than Mom's."
He says those things.
I was just joking.
But my mom and my sister take it too seriously.
Are there other things he does...
that are not fitting for a 20-year-old?
He depends too much on me.
"Mom, may I have some ramyeon?"
"May I eat? May I do this?"
He can't even...
ask a waiter for water.
He only sits next to me.
And he can't manage to keep his job for a long time.
He keeps his job for a maximum of one month.
After quitting his last job without saying anything to his boss,
he asked me, "Mom, can you talk to my boss?"
He does that.
He can't do things by himself.
- And it's because of the cartoon. - Yes.
Do you act like that because of Shin Chan?
That's not it.
I just can't make good decisions.
(He can't make good decisions.)
(But you are 20 years old.)
It's more comfortable to ask my mom what to do.
What about when your mom is out...
and you are alone? Do you feel anxious?
I don't feel anxious.
I still ask her through a text message or a call.
(No way.)
Your brother really loves "Crayon Shin-chan".
What do you think about that?
I hate it so much that I don't want to hear it.
I try not to hear it.
I hate it. But I can't stop...
humming the melody.
I get annoyed whenever that happens.
- You get surprised. - "Why am I singing this?"
How does the song go?
(She sings the song.)
That's it.
That's the opening.
(Ants are)
(Working hard again)
Some people sang along.
Why are you singing along?
It's addicting.
As a sister, don't you think...
this is a serious problem?
It's serious.
Sometimes,
Shin Chan looks more mature than my brother.
That's how immature he is.
He throws a lot of tantrums.
- He throws tantrums? - When there is...
something he wants to do, he has to do it.
He changed his phone 7 to 8 times.
When my mom doesn't allow it,
he throws tantrums at her.
One time, my mom told him to stop watching the cartoon.
She told him that it was too loud.
And he said, "What's wrong with it?"
If my mom gets upset and hits him,
he starts pinching her.
(Even kindergarteners wouldn't do that.)
My mom got upset...
and asked him if he wanted...
to become an immoral person.
But at the same time, my mom is very lenient to him.
Right. She let him act that way.
Yes. I think he still watches the cartoon...
because my mom wasn't stern enough with him.
Wait. So if your mom...
hits him when he acts up,
he hits her back.
Yes. He hits her back or pinches her.
One time, my mom got bruised because he pinched her hard.
(He pinched her too hard.)
(His behavior is more serious than we think.)
Why do you do that to your mom?
I unconsciously do it because I get annoyed.
I thought I did it only gently,
but her skin was bruised.
Like what your daughter said, perhaps you babied him too much.
Do you think that might be why?
I admit that I babied him.
In high school, he got bullied by his classmates.
He got depressed and had to get treated for it.
He dropped out of school,
and he tried to hurt himself a few times.
- That happened. - Yes.
Since he's my son,
I thought I should embrace him.
So I kept letting him do whatever he wants.
Thinking back, I think it only ruined him.
(It ended up ruining him.)
- Has it been really tough? - Yes.
When I entered high school,
I was close to girls.
Then strange rumors spread in the school.
The rumors were giving me too much of a hard time.
So I quit school.
I kept thinking about hurting myself.
It's been really tough.
Do you feel much better now?
Yes. Right now,
I am well enough not to take any medications.
- I'm glad to hear it. - That's good.
The biggest problem is...
that he always stays home.
He doesn't have a social life.
Yes. He doesn't have a social life.
Other than watching "Crayon Shin-chan",
what do you do?
I go out to meet my friend just once a month.
Do you just stay home then?
Yes. I stay home most of the time.
He says he goes out to meet his friend...
once a month,
and I am really glad to hear that.
His friend is here today.
- Hello. - Hello.
Did you know that your friend likes "Crayon Shin-chan"?
Towards the end of last year, he suddenly called me.
He said he was suffering from severe depression.
He said he couldn't stop having extreme thoughts.
I kept leading him to a positive direction,
and he got better.
You played a good role.
It wasn't his mother that helped him,
- It was his friend. - He played a good role.
Having a friend is important.
As you know, he likes "Crayon Shin-chan".
I think he's off-the-wall like Shin Chan.
One day, he said he was going to open a clothing shop.
Then he said he was going to open a cellphone shop.
Then he went and got a lot of cooking certificates.
He studied for his GED and passed.
(He got his GED.)
- Well done. - Well done.
- He's great. - Well done.
He applied to a college...
to study food and nutrition. He's waiting for the result.
(He's waiting for the result now.)
He did a good job.
He was living his life more intently,
and he was aggressively planning his life.
So I was happy for him.
But it turns out he is obsessed with "Crayon Shin-chan".
It turns out he was obsessed with "Crayon Shin-chan".
I never thought he was having this problem.
- You thought he was doing well. - Yes.
You have a goal, and you are working towards it.
Yes. I thought cooking was the only way for me.
Cooking.
From my 3rd year of middle school to 1st year of high school,
I earned certificates in Korean, Chinese, Japanese,
and western cuisines.
(He has 4 certifications.)
He's great.
When I enter college to study food and nutrition,
I am going to graduate with good grades.
I want to be the best food and nutrition expert.
- That's great. - That's my goal.
(He's great.)
(She's quite satisfied.)
Have you cooked for your mom?
When my family gathers for the holiday,
I cooked them braised short ribs.
(Bravo.)
My goodness.
He must be a good cook.
Who has a son who can cook braised short ribs?
He's interested...
- He's a good cook. - He is?
- Then it's no problem. - He's doing great.
After he became depressed,
he didn't cook for a while.
But if he wants to continue, I'll...
- You'll support him, right? - Yes.
She does support me,
but she expects me to figure everything out on my own.
I want to sit with her and discuss things...
to find a way.
Is there not enough communication?
No. Once, I had a fight with my friends and asked my mom...
for advice.
She told me I should figure out on my own.
She didn't really seem to care.
I worked at a restaurant for more than 10 years.
A year ago, I had four back surgeries.
Oh, my.
Because of my condition, I'm not working right now.
This is my second marriage, and my children are grown up.
I feel a little uncomfortable...
about not working right now.
(She was occupied with her own problems.)
That's why I couldn't really pay attention to my son.
Both of you should open your hearts more. You should too.
You could cook, for example.
- You want to become a cook, right? - Yes.
You could make a late-night snack or something.
Something like stir-fried pork.
You could make a dish like that.
Why are you suddenly talking about a dish you want?
- Can't I talk about it? - All right.
You could make a dish and initiate a conversation.
I think you should reach out to her first.
Right. Do you think you can do that?
(Open your heart first.)
Maybe not right away, but I'll try...
- little by little. - Exactly.
(Mom is smiling for the first time.)
You can't change at once.
Will you try to pay more attention to your son?
Of course. As long as my son opens his heart to me.
- Of course. - Any last words for your son?
Say, "My dear son".
You should express your love.
(Cringing)
You hate your mom that much?
It's because their mom never expresses her love.
They're just not used to it.
Son, you know I love you, right?
I don't want you to get sick.
I hope you'll cheer up and work hard.
That's all I want. I love you.
(I love you, my son.)
All right.
Yi Seul.
I think they'll be able to solve it through conversation.
I don't think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry either.
He watches only "Crayon Shin-chan" and Hello.
I think he watches them both because of women.
Shinobu and Yeong Ja.
I think he'll be fine once he gets a girlfriend.
At first, it sounded like he had no daily life,
so I thought it was a serious worry.
But it's really great that he has a dream.
I don't think it's a worry either.
- He'll get better. - Yes.
If you think it's a worry for his mom, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Say something to your mom.
I'm sorry I've been so immature.
If we can find time,
I hope we'll go on a short family trip...
- together. - Good.
I love you.
(I love you, Mom.)
Say something to your sister too.
- Apologize to your sister. - Yes.
Say something to your older sister.
I'm sorry.
(I'll try harder.)
Let's see the result.
"Son, Stop Watching It!"
The last digit is four.
(What's the result?)
What's the result?
114.
(114 votes)
The title is "Single Husband".
Hello.
I'm a house wife raising three children,
who are 9, 7, and 3 years old.
"Mom, I need school supplies!"
"Mom, where are my socks?"
(Crying)
Every day is a battle to me.
Do you know what my husband is like?
"Honey, can you watch the kid while I do the dishes?"
"Later."
"Right now."
"Okay."
"Gosh, I died."
"I need to play one more round."
It doesn't end there.
When he comes home, he assembles Gundam figurines in his room...
or flies drones in the living room.
- In the living room? - He does...
whatever he wants to.
One day, I was vacuuming the apartment.
Where's the Gundam figurines arm?
Did you clean again?
Do you know how much that arm costs?
He can see which Gundam figurine parts are missing,
but he can't see that his wife is the only one who cleans.
I got angry and threw stuff at him.
"What do you want me to do more?"
"It's suffocating. Gosh."
He went out like that.
I gave up everything for our kids,
but my husband lives like a single man and does what he wants.
Please bring him to his senses.
Na Mi, what do you think?
Before I became a comedian,
I dated someone who was obsessed with games.
I'd search internet cafes for him.
Once you get married,
the couple should raise the children together.
She must be so stressed out.
- What do you think? - What do you think?
I've never thought about getting married,
so I can't relate completely.
- We love playing games too. - Right.
When he said he had to play another round,
I thought, "That's understandable."
- Because you play games too. - Yes.
Let's meet the person who sent this letter.
Please come out!
(Whose husband enjoys hobbies like a single man?)
Bong Gi, please.
(Lee Yu Kyung)
(Bong Gi escorts her.)
It was Bong Gi that escorted her. It wasn't Na Mi.
Okay.
I just want to make sure you remember it right.
Tell us about your husband's hobbies.
- Phone games, computer games, - Phone games, computer games,
- Gundam figurines... - Gundam figurines...
- He started to fly drones too. - Goodness.
(He is interested in drones too.)
When we were dating,
even though I don't like computers so much,
we went to internet cafes a lot.
- Internet cafe dates. - Yes.
Now we have three children,
and he hasn't changed.
It feels like he married his hobbies, not me.
Does he enjoy his hobbies every day?
When he comes home from home around 7:30pm,
he turns on his computer in his room.
Right after he changes?
Until dinner is ready, he watches dramas or plays games.
I'm breastfeeding our third child.
- You are? - Yes.
She's only 21 months old.
And you're still breastfeeding her?
Yes. After taking care of three kids all day...
and putting them to sleep, I was breastfeeding the baby at night.
Suddenly, I heard laughter coming from the room.
Wearing a headset, my husband was chatting...
and playing games.
That laughter drives me crazy from time to time.
You didn't do anything?
I said, "Am I taking care of the kids so you can play games?"
I felt a sudden urge to smash...
something related to games, so I threw his mouse.
That's the most important thing.
He got upset over that,
and he didn't come home for hours.
(I wouldn't be able to stand him.)
What is he like when he's assembling Gundam figurines?
He closes his door first...
and won't come out for hours.
One day, while cleaning,
I accidentally sucked up a part with a vacuum cleaner.
He grilled all three children including the baby who can't talk.
- She's 21 months old. - What did he say to her?
He kept asking them, "Where did the part go?"
"Have you seen it?"
"Did you eat it? Open your mouth."
(Laughing)
How many Gundam figurines does he have?
He has about 20.
If I hadn't stopped him,
he would have collected a hundred.
- What about drones? - What about drones?
Without me knowing,
he had bought four.
Four drones?
So he's obsessed with drones these days?
Yes. He flies them even in the living room.
(He flies drones in the living room.)
You have three kids, but he flies drones in the living room?
We went to see the sea recently.
I was taking care of the kids, and he was gone.
He was flying drones on the other side.
(He was flying drones alone.)
When you get angry with him,
how does he react?
He says it's too much for him.
I ask him, "Do you think you're still single?"
"I'm tired too, but I make sacrifices."
"Why are you still the same?"
Did you just curse?
You said that you cry alone often.
Yes. While playing with a toy,
our third kid hurt her nose and lips and started bleeding.
- She bled? - Yes. My husband was...
outside. I was so upset.
I blamed our first kid for not watching his little sister.
You took it out on him.
He didn't do anything wrong.
His brother started crying too,
and I felt so sorry and cried too.
Everyone cried.
Does your husband help you with anything at all?
He thinks he does.
But all he does is play with the kids for about 10 minutes.
Our third kid still needs me a lot.
While I'm taking a shower,
my husband doesn't know what to do if she cries.
He opens the bathroom door,
and I'm forced to finish up.
Your husband and kid wait for you in front of the bathroom?
Yes, they do.
Did he help you when your first child was born?
- No, he didn't. - He didn't?
Even with the first child.
He didn't help you raising the first child,
but you still had the second child.
And you still had the third child.
- Yes. - That's what happened.
He wasn't helping you, but you kept having more children.
Let's meet him.
(We are curious about her problematic husband.)
He's been looking as if he's been falsely accused.
- He's... - He looks like a good man.
- He does look like a good man. - He's handsome as well.
Let's meet him. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is her husband who enjoys his hobbies?)
Just tell us honestly.
Do you understand your wife's concern?
I watch Hello often.
I've seen people addicted to Gundam.
I've seen people addicted to games.
I think I am not...
as bad as them.
You think you are not as bad as them.
You don't understand it.
Those people were only into one thing.
But you are into Gundam, game,
- and drone. When I heard it, - Drone.
I thought you are like the married version of Kim Gun Mo.
(He's just like Gun Mo.)
- Right. - Right.
Gun Mo is just enjoying his life.
When I got married, it's hard to do a lot of things.
So I only do the things I can do alone.
I started flying drones...
because my eldest son is taking a drone class.
(He started flying drones for his eldest son.)
I only started flying drones to play with my eldest son.
At one point, my wife told me to find something I can do at home.
She told me not to leave the house.
So I started making Gundam models.
- So you listened to your wife. - Yes.
He did what you told him to do.
(Who is...)
(telling the truth?)
He was doing what you told him to do.
I didn't know he was going to be so into it.
(He listens to me too well when it comes to these things.)
- You didn't know he'd do that. - No.
Let's see how many Gundams and drones he owns.
We asked for some photos.
(The room is filled with Gundams.)
They are big.
There are ones that are made, and there are ones to be made.
Right. Some are not yet made.
He never throws away the boxes.
They are the drones.
The black one is an expensive one.
Yes. The black one can't be flown in the house.
It has a GPS function.
(It has GPS.)
(My goodness.)
- He must really annoy you. - Right.
- Yes. - I am sacrificing myself,
but he still maintains his hobbies...
and starts new ones. It is a bit annoying.
I suggest hobbies for her too.
It's obvious what you suggested. "Let's fly a drone together."
"You make the left arm. I will make the right arm."
Can you give me an example? Which hobby did you suggest?
- I suggested we play badminton. - Together.
Who would look after the three kids then?
You have to find a way so that she can play badminton.
The kids always look for their mom.
It's because you never play with them.
I told her she should wait until the kids get a little bigger.
You want her to wait?
- Not now? - Is she the only parent?
Your wife must want to do a hobby too.
You have to meet her halfway.
Right.
The important thing is this.
When your wife asks for your help, you don't come right away.
It seems like you look down on her.
What do you say about that?
It's not that I am looking down on her.
I tend to act slow.
- You act slow. - I think once again before acting.
My wife hates it too.
I think 5 to 10 minutes before I move.
What do you think about? Why are you so slow?
What do you do?
What do you do during those 5 to 10 minutes?
I think about getting up.
You think about that for five minutes.
(He thinks about it instead of acting.)
"I should get up."
"Should I get up?"
What do you think about playing he game with your children...
or making Gundam with them?
Whenever I suggest that we do it together,
they say they want to do it by themselves. They neglect me.
(He can't believe it.)
When your wife hasn't even started washing,
when she's in the middle of doing her business,
you open the bathroom door and hurry her to come out.
I don't hurry her.
I just hold a child...
and stand in front of the bathroom.
That's telling me to hurry.
If you do that in front of the bathroom,
how can she take a shower comfortably?
You are a slow person. You should be patient.
Why do you stand in front of the door?
I just slowly stand there and look at her.
- How do you slowly stand? - You slowly move.
What is your intention of doing that?
Is it because the child looks for your wife?
At first, I try holding and playing with the child.
But in less than 10 minutes, the child runs to my wife.
So I just let the child look at her and wait for her.
(He's too lazy to go back and forth.)
We are not saying having a hobby is bad.
You need a way to relieve stress.
I knew I would have to give up my hobby...
when I get married.
I didn't know I had to give up this much.
(What?)
(What did you give up?)
Tell us what you gave up.
I work in event planning.
I always have to think.
When I go to events, there's a lot of physical labor.
I was looking for ways to relieve the stress from it.
It would be fine if he only does things at home.
(Are there more?)
- Are there more? - He spends time...
- outside too. - What does he do outside?
He plays basketball, and he drinks 3 to 4 times a week.
When does he play basketball?
He used to play only on Thursdays and Sundays.
When he plays basketball,
he's too tired to play with the children.
He clearly acts like a bachelor.
Even when I was giving birth to my youngest,
he was in the basketball court.
(He was playing basketball while she was giving birth.)
Even when I was giving birth, he was in the basketball court.
(No way.)
- What is this? - Maybe he didn't know.
- No way. - Sir.
Did you go play basketball because you only wanted two children?
(How could he do that?)
- That's really bad. - That's terrible.
She was in the last month of pregnancy.
She said she was okay and I should just go.
- How can you really go? - It was before the due date.
She said she was okay.
I kept asking her if I could really go.
- "Can I really go?" - "Can I really go?"
Soon after I started playing, I got a call.
So I went straight to her.
One time, I was upset that he was drinking so often.
So I just locked the gate.
We live in a detached house, so there are walls around the house.
I was in the living room breastfeeding the baby.
There were strange sounds coming from the outside.
Did he climb up the wall?
And I saw him jumping over the wall.
She says I drink 3 to 4 times a week.
I drink with my friends...
only once in a while.
I don't drink often.
I think you still drink 3 to 4 times a week.
- In a week... - Will you be more honest?
- What's wrong with him? - It's like this.
(I got busted.)
You drink. You play basketball.
You do everything.
Are you making her do everything then?
That's not it. When I get home,
it's around 7:30pm.
I clean the room. I bathe the children.
I fix their beds. I do all the recycling.
He's talking as if...
he does these things every day.
When I am home, I always do those things.
How many times a week is that?
3 to 4 times a week.
Is he right?
She says he drinks 3 to 4 times a week and comes home late.
He says he bathes children 3 to 4 times a week.
His week must be 9 to 10 days long.
Or did he drink while cleaning the room?
This couple uses a different calendar.
Recently, Alberto was here.
I asked him how much he helps his wife with the child.
And he asked why we use the word "help".
He said it was his job.
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(You are not helping your wife.)
(You are supposed to raise the child together.)
I fell in love with him when he said that.
(Every household needs him.)
He tries to help.
When I call him while he's out drinking,
But he comes home to bathe the kids.
But that's just a means of justification.
He only does it so that he can drink comfortably.
- "I've done my job." - Right.
"I am going to drink now."
Whenever his friend calls him and asks to go out,
he never refuses.
When he hangs up, he always says,
"I'll ask my wife and call you back."
Then his friends might think...
Other people must think he's such a sweet husband.
He makes me a bad wife.
Are there other times when he tries to appear like a good husband?
Yes.
Since he's an event planner, he's good at celebrating anniversaries.
He got me a bracelet for our 10th wedding anniversary.
(He bought her a bracelet.)
He asked why I didn't post it on my social media.
(You should brag a little.)
- He said that to you. - Yes.
- He likes to brag. - Yes.
"Bracelet from my husband".
He wanted that.
I told him I was too lazy to post it.
He asked me what my friends thought about it.
He cares too much about what other people think.
- He cares about those things. - He does.
I think she's mistaken.
With the social media post,
I gave it to her after she gave birth to our second child.
She had our second child at home, in our bathroom.
- Really? - Yes.
I was only joking...
when I asked her why she didn't post about it.
Right. All men...
want to be shown as a good dad.
When I went out to eat with my family,
people recognized me. Whenever they did,
I just held my child up for no reason.
(He pretended to be the happiest.)
I know that.
I wanted people to think that we were really happy.
My son would've thought,
"What's wrong with my dad?"
I did that in a shopping mall too.
I am curious about something.
Have you ever taken care...
of your three children without your wife?
Right.
I told her I would take care of the children,
and I told her to go out.
But she doesn't like doing that.
- She can't trust you. - She can't trust you.
When I tell him to take care of the children and leave...
I was putting him in charge of the children.
My parents-in-law lives upstairs.
You live in the same building.
When I come home,
I saw my mother-in-law carrying the youngest daughter on her back.
(That's embarrassing.)
I felt so sorry. I felt embarrassed.
If my parents-in-law can't help him,
he calls me and makes the children beg me to come home.
What is that?
Recently,
I met up with other mothers.
I looked after the children and left the house after 10pm.
When I checked the time, it was 10:40pm.
- It has only been 40 minutes. - Yes.
My husband came to the pub with the children.
- My goodness. - He came with them.
- The pub was in the neighborhood. - What did he do?
He sat at a table behind ours.
(Is he a stalker?)
He sat at a table behind yours with the children.
It's pressuring.
The two older children play well by themselves.
It's not hard to take care of them.
Even my mom struggles to take care of the youngest one.
The youngest one cries so much.
I want her to come home before the child starts to cy.
- That's impossible. - She has no way of knowing.
That means she can't be outside for long.
Yu Kyung's mother-in-law is here.
- Hello. - Hello.
What do you think about her worry?
My goodness.
Ma'am, please feel free to say what you want to say.
I am apologetic. I feel bad for her.
There is a reason why I can't help her.
I am a dance instructor.
You are a dance instructor.
- Yes. - That's why you can't help her.
I couldn't help but notice...
- your pants. - They are sparkling.
I did think those pants are extraordinary.
They are pretty.
You are a dance instructor.
- Yes. - I want to ask your opinion.
Your son says he has fewer hobbies and helps around the house.
Who is telling the truth, your son or your daughter-in-law?
My daughter-in-law is telling the truth.
When I don't see my son's car in the parking lot at night,
I call him because I feel bad for Yu Kyung.
- You call your son. - "Hurry up and come home."
"Okay, Mom. I will be there soon."
Then he takes 3 to 4 hours.
Sometime, he comes home early in the morning.
(He comes home early in the morning.)
Which thoughts do you have during that time?
"Why am I not going home?"
"I am disappointed in myself." Do you beat yourself up?
How do you do that for 3 to 4 hours?
It takes him 15 minutes to listen to his wife...
and 3 to 4 hours to listen to his mom.
What do you think about your son's hobbies?
- He listed his hobbies. - Yes.
You know the robots that you make as a kid?
He is so absorbed in it...
that he doesn't answer when he is making one.
He's so absorbed in it that he even caused a car accident.
- Why? - How?
A car accident?
(How did it happen?)
(It's nothing to laugh about.)
He sacrifices sleep to make Gundam and play games.
He dozed off behind the wheel...
and caused a three-way collision not only once, but twice.
- Twice? - This is serious.
I tell him to sleep, but he doesn't listen.
- It's different from what you said. - I didn't cause a car accident...
because of my hobbies.
I couldn't sleep because of work and a severe case of insomnia.
- That's why I lacked sleep. - That's not true.
Do you doze off every time you drive?
I saw it with my own eyes.
- What did you see? - I saw it with my own eyes.
(I am telling you I saw everything.)
I saw it with my own eyes.
Please tell us.
- Please tell us. - Sir.
- His story doesn't add up. - I saw that...
he stayed in his room all night.
He made something all night.
When I tell him to stop, he acts like he didn't make it.
Then he sits and plays games.
- Was that the day... - The day before the accident.
The day before the accident.
There is something I really want to ask.
Why would you tell a lie that will get you caught so soon?
I think my mom is mistaken.
I am not mistaken. I saw it with my own eyes.
(He gets busted thanks to his mom.)
That's right.
Ma'am, has he always been this way?
- He is slow. - He acted slow and gave excuses...
- when you told him to do something. - That's right.
When he was in elementary school, he didn't make it to school...
unless I was behind him.
He is like that.
Does he give excuses?
Yes, he does.
Does he feign ignorance?
Yes, he does.
He has the worst habits.
- Those are his habits. - Those are his habits.
- Seriously. - He's repeated offender.
Didn't you know about this when you were dating him?
I am talking about his tendency to give excuses and such.
I thought he did it out of love.
My goodness.
Ma'am, what do you think is his biggest problem?
Gosh, his problem...
He has too many problems.
(He has too many problems.)
Why didn't you talk to your son?
Now that he is old, he doesn't listen to me.
Even though I am old, I listen to my mom.
(Both of them are old, but they act differently.)
When your husband has a day off,
does he try to play with the children?
He either plays game...
- or says he is tired. - He says he is tired.
When the children see him play games,
they go, "I want to play games, too."
"I want to play games like Dad."
They play games together. The oldest child went,
"Dad only drinks and plays games."
"Why did you marry Dad?"
Really? Did your child say that?
(Shocked)
I would have been shocked.
My wife tells the children,
"Dad went to drink. Dad is playing games."
They are getting brainwashed.
They aren't getting brainwashed.
She probably said those words because she was upset.
Did you ask your mom why she married your dad?
- Yes. - Why did you ask her that?
She married a man who drinks a lot.
(My goodness.)
What don't you like when your dad drinks a lot?
He doesn't come home early.
- He comes home late. - He comes home late.
Does he play with you when he doesn't drink?
- No. He used to play with me. - No?
- He used to play with me. - What does he do at home?
He watches TV and plays games on the computer.
That's the image of his dad.
- What do you want to do with him? - I want to have a game battle.
I want to have a game battle.
A game battle!
The loser must stop playing games.
You should beat him.
He said he started flying drones for his oldest son.
Does he fly drones with you?
- No, he doesn't. - Why don't you do that?
He said he bought drones for you.
I stopped flying drones.
(He said he bought drones for his oldest son.)
(False)
(He said he gives the children a bath.)
(False)
(He said his hobbies weren't the cause of the car accidents.)
(False)
(He can no longer fool people with his lies.)
Has your mom gotten angry...
when he built Gundam?
"Why do you play games and watch TV..."
"without putting the children to bed?"
(He suddenly imitates his mom.)
How cute!
You should become a comedian.
- How cute! - He can do a voice impression.
Is there anything...
you want your dad to do?
I hope he would stop flying drones at home.
- What else? - What else?
I hope he would stop coming home later...
after he goes out to drink.
Are you okay with him watching TV and playing games?
Yes.
That way, you get to do the same.
(Was it that obvious?)
We talked for a long time.
Do you have the intention to change?
There is something I told my wife. I told her often...
that we should play with the children outside...
when they grow up.
They are old enough. How old do you want them to be?
- Your oldest child is 9. - 12th grade?
- Seriously. - College?
I played sports with my son ever since he was 6 or 7.
When they grow older, they won't play with you.
- They will play with their friends. - They will play with their friends.
(Is that so?)
Your wife must have had a dream.
She must have had something she wanted to do.
I want to get a hobby...
and a certification.
I want three hours of alone time...
in a week.
I miss places that aren't for children...
like an intestine restaurant that is filled with smoke.
An intestine restaurant that is filled with smoke.
A barbecue restaurant that uses briquettes.
You can eat more when people can't see you.
I want to go to a place like that and chat with people.
You want to chew on intestines and badmouth your husband.
Yes.
(She asks for the smallest thing...)
(because she hasn't had time for herself.)
What do you want your husband to stop doing?
When I ask him for help,
I would like for him to do it right away without saying, "Later."
I want him to spend less time on his hobbies.
Don't say you will spend time with children when they grow up.
Help her until the children grow up.
Don't say, "Okay, I am going."
Say, "I will be home in two hours."
- Be honest. - Be honest.
Make a promise.
Would you be able to grant your wife's wish?
- Yes. - How will you do that?
Whose wish will you grant, your wife's or Dong Yeob's?
I will grant Dong Yeob's wish.
(He picks Dong Yeob.)
You shouldn't have said anything.
Don't attend a get-together you didn't tell your wife about.
(Speechless)
Make a promise.
I won't attend a spontaneous get-together with friends.
(He promises.)
That's good.
How about playing games at home?
I will play games after the children fall asleep.
That's good. On weekends, take your children out...
and go ride bicycles and have various experiences.
Let's start with Yi Seul.
I hope he would dedicate himself to the family...
so that he doesn't regret it later.
When he doesn't keep his promise,
go to the pub he is at.
- Everyone will know his story. - Everyone will know his face.
You should report it.
I think this is a process to find happiness.
Yu Kyung should get some time for herself.
That's why I think it's a worry.
You should make a lot of effort.
Say what you want to say to your husband.
Honey, thank you for listening to my worry.
Please spend less time on get-togethers and games...
as I asked.
From now on, let's raise the children together...
and live happily. I love you.
(I love you.)
Are you happy to hear her say she loves you?
Since the atmosphere is nice, we should see his mother dance.
(Will she dance to congratulate them?)
(Flustered)
(Show us your dance.)
(Instead of dancing, she says, "I love you".)
My goodness, she is cute.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see the result.
How many votes will "Single Husband" get?
The last digit is three.
Will it get over 100 votes?
(I hope it doesn't get many votes.)
143 votes.
(143 votes)
- "The Handsome Man's Life". - "The Handsome Man's Life".
"The Handsome Man's Life".
- I am curious. - Are you curious?
- Yes. - Na Mi,
what is Heo Kyeong Hwan's life like?
(What is Heo Kyeong Hwan's life like?)
I don't know.
(He played Na Mi's husband in a program.)
Okay.
Hello, I am a coordinator at a dermatologist's.
We have a tall and handsome director of consultation...
at the clinic.
"Director. Director. Director, we have a customer."
He is rarely around.
"Director, I looked for you everywhere."
"What are you doing here?"
(What could be more important than work?)
"I am applying a sheet mask."
"I got a pimple in the morning."
"Would you like one?"
He takes care of his skin all day...
without working.
That's why this happens.
"How long do I need to wait..."
"for a consultation?"
"I have already waited for two hours."
"I am sorry. Please wait a bit longer."
I am the one who receives a flood of complaints.
"Director, this is too much."
"After waiting, a customer said..."
"I don't want to hear it."
"I don't know why my skin looks so dull today."
"I am so annoyed."
"This won't do. I need to go and get a shot."
"I am getting off work."
(When does he work?)
He gets treatments so often...
that his face is never in good shape.
- Please stop my director. - Goodness.
(Please stop my director.)
Na Mi, what do you think?
I received Botox injections in the past.
After a while, the plumpness disappears.
Then my face became funnier. I looked like a skull.
I didn't get Botox injections after that.
Ha Neul, you take care of your skin, right?
(Are you looking...)
(for Ha Neul...)
(right now?)
Yes, I also use...
one sheet mask a day.
Her name is Yi Seul, not Ha Neul.
(Embarrassed)
Your beauty...
belongs to the sky, "Haneul".
I have no way to turn this around.
I thought I heard you wrong.
Please come on out.
(Whose worry involves a director who takes care of his skin all day?)
(He is handsome.)
Na Mi.
(She suddenly gets up.)
Na Mi.
My goodness.
(What is going on?)
Na Mi. Na Mi.
Men don't need to be escorted.
I am sorry.
My heart took over.
You moved without thinking.
(I moved without thinking.)
She is Oh Na Mi.
(What?)
She is Oh Na Mi.
(She dabs on his face with an ulterior motive.)
- What are you doing? - I thought I saw something.
(We will root for you.)
Does your director really shirk his work...
to take care of his skin?
I have never seen anyone like him.
He is a director who works at the same dermatology clinic as me.
He doesn't do anything because he is busy with his skin.
- He is busy with his skin. - Yes.
Is he a celebrity? Is he a model?
He is a non-celebrity who acts like a celebrity.
(The director acts like a celebrity.)
If he gets a single pimple,
he looks into the mirror all day.
- Does he really do that? - Yes.
Not even women...
look into the mirror all day...
because there is a small pimple. It sounds inconvenient.
I don't look because it stresses me out.
Me neither. I usually don't look into the mirror.
It stresses me out.
He can take care of his skin,
but he does it during his work hours.
He does it during his work hours.
He doesn't work.
Even when there is a consultation reserved,
he disappears without a word. When I look for him,
he is drawing his eyebrows and fixing his makeup.
Who looks after the customers?
I look after the customers while they wait.
Sometimes, I hold consultations.
Even though my work hours end at 7pm,
holding consultations and such...
make me go home at 9pm. I can't even eat lunch.
- That's how busy you are. - Yes.
He makes himself look handsome to meet the customers,
but he doesn't meet them.
Seriously.
Every morning, he goes to a beauty shop.
- What? - He is a celebrity!
He pays 50 dollars a day to get his hair and makeup done.
He even gets his makeup done.
We have to be at work by 11am.
I don't go to a beauty shop.
He doesn't come to work until 1 or 2pm.
- Does he always come to work late? - Yes.
His tendencies interfere with work.
When do you feel the most flustered?
He receives the treatments that are meant for the customers.
(It's the definition of role reversal.)
He lies on the beds that are meant for the customers.
Don't the customers say anything?
They are the ones who need treatments.
We receive a lot of complaints.
They write negative posts on internet cafes.
- They write comments. - They say that the wait is long...
and the consultation is subpar.
Don't the doctors say anything?
They sigh,
but he is unstoppable.
He avoids the situation by going,
"All right, all right."
Is he an investor in the clinic?
I bet he has some shares.
I don't know about that.
He doesn't know about that.
We haven't heard anything about the shares.
(It makes no sense otherwise.)
Let's talk to the director who takes care of himself. Hello.
(Everyone is curious...)
(about his face.)
Hello.
I am sorry,
but may we take a look at your skin?
Zoom into his skin.
(Clear)
His skin is clear.
Did you get your makeup done to be on the show?
- Yes, I did. - I bet he did.
Which products did you use? BB cream?
I used every product.
You used every product.
He looks like a younger version of Oh Man Seok.
You are right.
- I see the resemblance. - You are right.
You heard your coworker's worry.
Do you understand it?
I understand, but it can't be helped.
What do you mean by that?
You shouldn't worry about skincare during your work hours.
What do you mean it can't be helped?
If I get a pimple in the morning,
I lose the confidence to face a customer.
Your coworkers end up...
doing your job.
What do you think about that?
I always think that it must be inconvenient for them...
if I leave my office.
- You only think about it. - You only think about it.
"It must be inconvenient for them."
- Is that what you think? - How long...
are your work hours?
I work from 2pm to 8pm.
How many hours do you spend on skincare?
I get treatments from 11am to 1pm.
- 2pm to 8pm. - What?
He goes in the middle, too.
"He goes in the middle, too"? What does that mean?
- He goes from 2pm to 8pm as well. - Yes.
He gets treated during those hours.
- He goes to get treatments. - He does it secretly.
There is something I really want to ask.
Why would you tell a lie that will get you caught so soon?
Even the smallest pimple makes me anxious.
That's why I get treatments repeatedly.
Why don't you inform your coworkers...
ahead of time?
I want to do that,
but I can't make reservations ahead of time.
I only find out in the morning if I got pimples or not.
You are taking a customer's spot.
There are many beds at the clinic.
(Is he happy about that?)
I'm sure you have a boss at your workplace.
Don't they say anything?
Had I been a regular employee,
I would have gotten fired.
However...
(What makes him special?)
I invested in the clinic.
I have shares.
He has shares.
Do you have shares?
- I should have known. - No wonder he didn't get fired.
(I should have known.)
Bong Gi catches on quickly.
(Bong Gi's quick-wittedness is surprising.)
Is that possible in an ordinary company?
Are you taking advantage of it?
That they can't fire you because you're a stockholder?
So I love it.
(He rubs it into his coworker's face.)
(He's unbelievable.)
Can you tell us, in detail, what you do?
I spend an hour or two...
on basic care.
Glowing injection, licorice injection or white jade injection.
- White jade injection? - Do you get them once every week?
2 or 3 times a week.
What other injections?
- Salmon injection. - "Salmon injection."
- Salmon? - Salmon?
Salmon fish injection.
Is it an extract that comes from salmon?
- Yes. - I didn't know about that.
How about stem cells?
I get that once a month.
- Stem cells. - When you get that many injections,
do you have a drinking habit?
(Do you have a drinking habit?)
(I'm getting cold.)
I saw people whose faces run down due to too many injections.
And it looks like he's addicted.
I'm worried about his health.
Normally, customers get injections every three weeks,
but he gets injections 3, 4 times in 1 week.
Then does he have a bruise all the time on his face?
He's always bruised on here.
I think he's also addicted to plastic surgery.
- Plastic surgery? - Did he also get his face done?
(Where did he get done?)
- His nose... - It's evident.
He seems his got his eyes done too.
How about here?
A little bit.
(You got caught.)
His grandmother recently visited him in the hospital.
When he went out to meet her, she didn't recognize him.
- His grandmother? - Yes.
He got so much done that he looks different now.
(Worried)
Is it true?
My family gathered near the hospital.
I said hello to my grandmother.
She said, "Who is that boy?"
(Who's that boy?)
I think it's because my skin looks fair.
She couldn't recognize you because of your fair skin?
(Please pull it together already.)
Who do you think...
would benefit from...
plastic surgery?
- How about me? - Yes, Dong Yeob too.
We say in the hospital...
that if you get too much epicanthoplasty...
- you might... - You become Shin Dong Yeob?
(Side effect will make you look like Shin Dong Yeob.)
I'm glad I can be helpful.
Dong Yeob doesn't have anything to fix?
I believe you don't need to spend money...
to change an appealing face.
(How about me?)
How about me?
(Abstract of many negative words)
Okay. Okay.
(You're appealing.)
Do you think you're not appealing since you keep getting it done?
I think I'm not generous to myself.
(Change your attitude.)
I think it'd cost a lot.
Right.
I spend all my pay check on it.
I don't have anything left or need more.
I think he's out of his mind.
- Why? - His credit card bill comes out...
to 8,000 to 9,000 dollars a month.
(They can't believe what they heard.)
- 8 to 9,000 dollars? - He asks what he should do.
Installments add up,
so it reaches that amount if I spend a lot.
But normally, it's 3 to 4,000 dollars.
Solely on aesthetics?
You're young. Where did you get so much money?
That you could make an investment?
Are you rich?
Not at all. I'm in debt.
- How much? - Roughly.
Are you asking because you're willing to pay it off for him?
- No. - You shouldn't ask that question...
if you're not willing to pay it off for him.
Then ask him instead, Yeong Ja.
How many times do I have to pay off men's debt?
How much is it?
Roughly...
it's worth one domestic car.
- How much is that? - A domestic car.
A bit over 10,000 dollars?
- 30,000 to 40,000 dollars? - About that.
(How am I supposed to stop him?)
His friend is here.
You have fair skin,
and you're very handsome.
Do you get aesthetics a lot too?
- Your skin looks fair. - They must go together.
I was kind of forced to go because of him.
(How is that a man's face?)
We used to work in the same hair salon.
Hair salon.
I was a hair designer, and he did consultations.
He did the same thing in the past. He got his face done,
and came to work all bruised.
He wore sunglasses and a mask while dealing with customers.
Do you understand his worry?
Yes.
I've been to his work a few times because he told me to.
Every time I went there, he wasn't there.
(He was missing every time he visited.)
I would have consultations with other people.
(He's the same to his friends.)
My biggest complaint is when he points out my appearance.
When he finds a pimple on my face,
he blames me for not taking care of myself.
He kept telling me to get my face done.
Fix where? You have nothing to fix.
Other people say it's fine,
but he says I have to get my nose or my chin done.
- But you're handsome. - You're handsome.
So he's saying he did get his face done.
- Oh, he got it done. - Is that the result?
(A doctor's result?)
Yes.
You fooled us.
But it looks nice.
The fat underneath his eyes are very plump.
It's still puffy.
(It's still puffy.)
(It will look better once it settles.)
Does he point out your appearance too?
To me, you look very appealing.
Right. You look the best among the three.
(Natural handsome guy)
- You look the best. - When I first started working,
he said I should get my eyes and nose done.
Just a few days ago, he told female doctors...
and nurses...
that they should get lifting since they're old.
He talks without thinking.
Don't nurses complain behind him?
They find it ridiculous and just sigh.
You have charming eyes and nose.
Why do you keep telling him to get it done?
He has such a small face.
He has a nice chin line.
I thought he'll be perfect if he fixes just a little bit.
He looks better than you.
We have a different standard of beauty.
(It's frustrating.)
Because I've been doing this job for a long time,
it's true that we should take care of ourselves,
but our looks aren't everything.
As his close friend, what do you think?
I'm worried.
He gets too much plastic surgery done for his age.
Personally, I think he has low self-esteem.
Even when he's out somewhere near his house,
if he didn't put on a makeup or look good,
- he wouldn't leave. - No?
He never leaves.
He wouldn't even go to a convenience store.
When he goes to the clinic to get a job done,
doctors say he should stop or his face will be ruined,
but he goes to another clinic to get it done.
I can't control it.
He's addicted.
Do you have any complex in your look?
When I was young,
my brother and sister were born with fair skin.
They were handsome and pretty.
When my relatives came over...
(When guests or relatives came over...)
They said the youngest child is a mutant.
(The youngest child is a mutant.)
That was stressful.
I had an allergy and acne...
- when I was young. - When you were young?
People said I had dirty skin.
People often said I should fix it.
I think that has left me with a bit of resentment.
(That memory has resulted in resentment.)
I don't understand this.
Even now,
when you walk down the street,
do you care about...
other people's skin and makeup?
You don't pay that much attention...
to others.
When people glance at me,
they might be looking at something else.
But I wonder if they're watching me because I'm ugly.
(He has victim mentality.)
(He cares too much.)
Aside from appearance,
is there any other way...
to raise your self-esteem?
Nothing else other than this.
Then how about watching "Crayon Shin-chan"?
It's healing and touching.
Every time I meet someone,
I try very hard to raise their self-esteem.
But I don't know how to do that to myself.
When I talk to my friends,
I should have someone who could tell me that it's too much,
but because I enjoy it so much, all my friends are alike.
(His friends only talk about appearance.)
Aside from appearance,
you could say you're worried about something else.
You could naturally talk about something else...
and listen to their stories.
That way, you could make friends.
Isn't that the easiest way to raise your self-esteem?
When celebrities...
talk only about the shows,
- I get annoyed. - Right.
I have one last question.
When you have a customer, how do you consult them?
Let's say I'm the customer. Could you consult me?
What do you think I need?
I don't think you need to spend a fortune...
- to change your looks anymore. - Okay.
Getting treatments on a regular basis would be enough...
because you look charming already.
Why won't you recommend anything to me?
Have you just given up on me?
Do you think I'm too old for this?
I want to have a face lift surgery.
Some elderly people had the surgery so many times.
They have two moles on the neck, which are actually their nipples.
(It turns out...)
I've heard that story before.
- It's a joke in the 1960s. - Yes. It's an old joke.
(It's just a joke.)
(I'll be careful too.)
As I talked to you,
I felt that you were only thinking about yourself...
while speaking to others.
You just tried to find the best angle for you.
(Come to think of it,)
(he doesn't move his face to maintain the perfect angle.)
It felt like you were meeting your friends,
but you just kept checking yourself in the mirror.
"Have you been well? Good. Okay."
"Of course, I'm doing fine."
And your job is to consult the customers.
I believe people would prefer to see you act naturally.
(We'd like to see you act naturally.)
What do you want from him the most?
- He's a very nice person. - I see.
- He takes care of other people. - I see.
It's just that he gives himself treatments during working hours.
That's right.
I want him not to get any more plastic surgery.
I also want him to focus on his job during working hours...
and get less treatments from now on.
I'm worried about his health too.
After listening to all of us, is there any change in your mind?
Yes. I didn't know he thought that way.
I will try to be more considerate of you.
I'll spend less time on treatments, so it won't affect my work.
If I get treatment,
I'll do it with you from now on.
(Thanks, but I'm good.)
Do you think it's a worry or not?
I don't think it's a worry.
He has a handsome face,
and I think he also has a good heart.
I was surprised as I thought she'd say, "I don't think it's a worry..."
"because he has a handsome face."
- I thought that was it. - Me too.
Should I call it irregularity at work?
- I believe it's not fair. - He's right.
I think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the buzzer.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - How many votes...
did "The Handsome Man's Life" get?
Please show us the result.
(The result)
The last digit is 0. Is it over 100?
It's over 100.
He needs 150 votes to win.
- What's the result? - "Single Husband" got 140 votes.
(140 votes)
As a result, "Single Husband" is this week's winner.
Congratulations.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you.
("Save Me, Save You" by WJSN)